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A person may describe themselves as “queer” if they have sexual or gender identities that do not follow the traditionally-understood “heterosexual” or “cisgender” models. However, “queer” has been reclaimed and is no longer considered derogatory.
To be safe, it’s best to never use a derogatory term to refer to a friend, even jokingly.
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